We as women share a very special sisterhood. We lean on each other during happy times but even more so when we have man troubles. We feel that we can share everything with our girls but I beg to differ, never ever tell your friends about things you share with your man. So often women share with their girls how good their man is in bed and other things that should stay just between the two of you. Also don’t share about things that your man may do wrong either because this could also come back to bite you in the ass.
There have been so many occasions where I have heard of “girlfriends” taking information shared with them by friends and using it to their advantage and taking a man from another friend. I know you are probably thinking that if it was that easy to take him then he must have not been that committed in the first place. That may or may not be true.
Imagine that you tell your friend how your man gets on your nerves by leaving the house in a mess. You are constantly at odds with him about the way he keeps the house. He feels that you are always nagging him about this and he finds himself in the company of said friend one day just casually chatting. Said friend consoles your man telling him that you are being unreasonable and the next thing you know the two of them are a couple and you are left ass out!
Now don’t get me wrong all of your girlfriends are not after your man but I think you should just be careful and not share too much.
I have the same feelings about couples that invite others into their bed. I have never and never will be one to willingly share my man but I do know of couples that were in “the lifestyle” and would invite others into their bed. It always started out with rules but before they knew it those rules were disregarded and two of the three found themselves alone and the “main” girl found herself kicked to the curb and the new couple moved on happy as ever. Again, I am not saying that these scenarios always take place but I am just saying to be careful how much you share with your girls.
Temptation is a very hard thing to overcome so let’s remove that temptation by not put all of your business out there.
